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The Realities of Post-Adoption Depression – Part 1

03.24.2010 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

I can remember exactly where I was when I first heard the term “post adoption depression”.

We were sitting in a hotel conference room in Spokane, WA at our required adoption training.

I’m pretty sure that the thought that went through my head was something like

“Crap! I’m screwed.”

Eloquent? Maybe not.

Truthful? Yes.

See, I’ve been down that road before.

Well, a slightly different version of that road, but one I did not want to revisit.

But the ugly truth is that I have a “genetic predisposition” with a history of depression in my family.

So yes, I had accepted the fact that I would most likely face this issue on and off throughout my life. I was just hoping it would be a dozen years or so before it smacked me down again.

The few scientific studies that have been done on post-adoption depression show that approximately one half of adoptive mothers will experience it – some very mildly and some more severe.

One might compare it to postpartum depression although most professionals attribute PPD, at least partially, to post-pregnancy hormones being out of whack. No such hormone issue can be blamed for PAD.

It seems so bizarre that here, at the joyous completion of a year-long journey, one filled with ups and downs, that depression would rear its ugly head.

With my first bout of depression in 2003 it was a full 6 months or more before I became so desperate that I reached out and got help. Since then I have learned to recognize my warning signs. But even still there is always doubt. Am I just tired? Is it just PMS? Is it just normal adjustment issues?

All it took was one defining moment for me to realize that it was so much more…

(Continued)

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Categories // Depression, Post-Adoption Tags // depression, Ethiopia, post adoption depression

Comments

  1. Kate Borders says

    March 24, 2010 at 12:01 pm

    Wow…thank you for your honesty. God SO powerfully uses our willingness to share our stories to meet others in the midst of theirs…

  2. kristen piver says

    March 24, 2010 at 6:22 pm

    Girl, we don’t talk nearly enough.

  3. Stacey says

    March 24, 2010 at 8:00 pm

    I’m glad you’re opening up and sharing this with other Moms. You probably have no idea how much it will benefit those around you. Love you girl!

  4. cpg says

    March 24, 2010 at 8:48 pm

    I’m with you Kristen. This is the second time I’ve heard this way beyond the time that it happened. You really need to learn to trust those of us who love you the most. Only kidding Julie. I know it is hard to tell anyone when you are going through it. I love you lots Julie!!

  5. Julie Burr says

    March 28, 2010 at 7:09 am

    I’d like to keep in touch w/ you. I’m also bipolar and went through HELL w/ both of my daughters. That’s the reason we’re adopting this time. I’ve NEVER met someone bipolar who’se now adopting (I guess you are). When I’ve shared my story people tend to think I’m a nutcase. It’s good to hear your story–really!!!!!

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