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Don’t Settle In

04.12.2013 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

“It is true that God may have called you to be exactly where you are. But, it is absolutely vital to grasp that he didn’t call you there so you could settle in and live your life in comfort and superficial peace.”
― Francis Chan, Forgotten God: Reversing Our Tragic Neglect of the Holy Spirit

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Secrets, Happiness and Comparisons

10.03.2012 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

Photo by Paul Brunskill from stock.xchng

Here’s some miscellaneous posts I’ve enjoyed lately.

Keeping Secrets from Mommy – Awesome post for Jamie Ivey about why innocent secrets might be a bad idea. I had never even thought about this but she has some great points. No more secrets in our house.

Your Happiness Means Everything to Your Husband – Did you know that one of the primary indicators a husband uses to determine if he is successful as a husband and a father and a man is – his wife’s happiness. Great post from Peaceful Wife.

Comparisons will kick you in the teeth and hijack your dreams every time – You know I’ve been talk about comparisons and contentment quite a bit lately. This post from Gypsy Mama nails it.

 

Categories // Family Matters

The Best Advice for Learning to Be Content

08.17.2012 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

In my last post I talked about how damaging it is to compare ourselves to others. It makes it really hard to be content. So DON’T compare.

But what can you DO to live in a place of contentment.

Focus on gratitude.

In her book “1000 Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are,” Ann Voskamp has this quote, which I love!

“When I give thanks for the seemingly microscopic, I make a place for God to grow within me.” 

For example, when I’m doing the 12th load of laundry for the weekend and am tempted to grumble about the never-ending pile of dirty clothes (which can quickly spiral into the “why do I have to do everything” pity party), I stop.

I start listing the things I have to be thankful for.

  • I’m thankful I don’t have to wash my clothes by hand.
  • I’m thankful for detergent I can buy at the store that works.
  • I’m thankful for dryers. Because I hate putting on crunchy jeans.
  • I’m thankful that we have so many clothes to wear.
  • I’m thankful that my washer and dryer are inside my air conditioned home.

What are some “microscopic” things you can be thankful for in an area where you struggle being content?

 

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Financial Freedom

Taking Advantage of The Housing Boom

The next huge step in our financial journey really came in 2004 when the housing market in Phoenix went absolutely crazy. The house that we bought for $199,900 over a year earlier was suddenly worth about $350,000. Crazy right? So of course Mark starts talking about selling and I start rolling my eyes at him. […]

I Met Dave!

We interrupt our normally scheduled post for this breaking news… I met Dave! Yesterday I got the opportunity to volunteer at the Dave Ramsey Live Event in Phoenix. It was this same event 10 years ago that changed our lives. Before the show Dave came around and greeted every one of the 60 or so […]

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